Sex
Sex Over 50
Sexuality, sensuality and the urge to love and be loved don’t fade with age
Our sex-life changes as we age, but it doesn’t disappear! In fact, most Canadians over 65 are sexually active and say that sex is important to them.
Our sexuality is not just what we do, or how often we do it. Our sexuality includes how we think, how we feel and how we act. It is a natural and important part of living and enjoying life. Our pattern of sexual activity does not change much with age. If you were sexually active in your younger years, you will probably continue to be sexually active as you grow older – though health situations may change the way that you express your sexuality.
Most adults – at 50 and at 80 – are sexually active
Most adults – as they transition into their middle and late years – are sexually active. However, our approach to sex, like our approach to many other activities and passions, may change and mature as we grow older. On the one hand, our bodies are changing and may be a bit slower to react; on the other hand, we may have more time to give to ourselves and to our intimate relationships. Plus we often have a wealth of experienceto bring to our sex lives. Many older couples say they enjoy sex more now than they did when they were younger.
Understand it. Enjoy it
Of course, every person and every relationship is different. As you age, you may encounter some challenges and delights that are specific to your own life and circumstances and others that are a very common part of the aging process. Understanding how sexual responses change with aging can help you continue to enjoy a rich and satisfying sex-life.
Last Modified: November 5, 2007